Wow! Thanks for the support yesterday! It means a lot to us. I received quite a few emails with questions that I will answer below!
Dear Men, this post is not for you unless you want to learn about my uterus.
|taken August 4th|
WHY DID YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND?: I have always been interested in having at least one more child. I had the baby fever urge come and go, but Jon was pretty dead set on not having another. To be honest, I totally thought I was pregnant back in the winter. We found out I wasn't, and we were upset about it. After that, we made the decision to try again, since there was obviously a piece of our heart missing.
HOW DID YOU FIND OUT? FIRST SIGNS?: About a week after my speculated ovulation day (July 24th), my veins turned into a road map. Not even a road map. THE MAP OF THE NILE RIVER TURNED BLUE AND WAS ALL OVER MY BODY. Indiana Jones could just lay me down and use me to find the treasure. Normally I am a very veiny person, but not like this. It was all over my chest and into my yabos, on my rib cage, belly, hips, shoulders, etc. Not in normal places like usual. Jon thought I was crazy, but I know my body and knew I looked different. I also noticed my chest was very heavy and sensitive. Not painful per say, but definitely sensitive, which it never is.
So I immediately knew something was up. I didn't want to be a "symptom spotter" but this was different. I took a test using the First Response PT, but it was negative. But it was also 6 days before I thought my period was due, so I wasn't upset. We went away for the weekend for my birthday and the whole time I was tired and hungry. Like, mangry kind of hungry. I ate and slept so much.
Then, the day after we got home (August 4th) I could smell Jack's play doh from two rooms away. I was nauseous and had a slight headache. I knew this wasn't normal for me, so I decided to take the test again. INSTANT POSITIVE. Like BAM!
DUE DATE: April 10th
SYMPTOMS: Extreme all day sickness, fatigue, breaking out on my chest, forehead and back (I normally have very clear skin) no appetite, sore boobs and a bit moody at times (sorry Jon...love you!)
CRAVINGS: This is the weird thing...I'll crave something, then never, ever want to look at it again after I have it. Like milkshakes, white peaches, grape juice, toast with sunny-side eggs and spaghetti with meat sauce. The thought of those things now make me feel sick. So I'm hoping this ends after the 1st trimester.
BOY or GIRL?: I think it is a girl because my symptoms are so different from Jack's near perfect pregnancy. Jon thinks it's a boy because "I only make boys" well, you only have one child (lets hope) so you don't know that yet! I'd love a girl but I would also love a little brother for Jack. We will definitely find out at my 20 week ultra sound and hopefully announce on Thanksgiving to the family.
NAMES: Boy - Benjamin James. We both love the name Benjamin and Jack Benny (my favorite comedian) is actually named Benjamin. Jack was his stage name, so it has a little extra meaning to me. James is after my die-hard love for Jimmy Stewart.
Girl - Marin Elizabeth. Marin (Mare-in) means "the sea" in latin and you all know of my love for the sea. We first heard the name on Something's Gotta Give and fell in love with it. It isn't a common name either which we love. Ultimately I would have loved Ava after Ava Gardner, but I know 3 adult Ava's and 56 little girls named Ava, so unfortunately, it was a no. Elizabeth is a name we also love, not after anyone in particular. We just love the flow.
NURSERY: Well, depending on where we are (there's a chance we are moving to Nashville for Jon's music career...more on that later), the baby will sleep in our room (in a crib, definitely not co-sleeping again because now Jack refuses to sleep alone haha) then Jack and the baby will share Jack's room. We also plan on renovating our basement and have it be a giant family/play room so they would have more room to run around. If we move, then I have no idea ;-)
DOES JACK GET IT?: OH yeah! And he is so excited! He keeps asking if it's April yet and loves to kiss my belly and ask what the baby is saying in there. We are glad we did wait so long to have another because Jack has always been a handful (in a good way). Now is the perfect time.
HOW WILL YOU DOCUMENT IT?: Probably take a belly shot every 5 weeks or so...ooops..should get on that.
HOW ARE YOU PREPARING:Well, to be honest, we are very laid back about this baby. As long as we have a crib, car seat and some clothes, we are good to go. We have more than that (swing, baby bjorn, Boppy) but we will get more once we feel the need. WHY? Because Jack MAYBE used half the stuff we got for him ONCE. It was a waste of money and space. So if we feel the baby needs something else, then we will get it then. When the baby starts to eat solid foods, THEN we will get a highchair. No need to get everything at once. For clothes, we will definitely need all new stuff. Jack was born as a preemie in December, so his clothes will be too small and out of season if it is a boy. If its a girl, we obviously need clothes. But, I love to score sales and other Mom's are very generous with hand-me-downs (like I have always been as well) so, like I said we are not worried at all. I gave pretty much everything I had for Jack away to friends and family in need which I do not regret at all. I wasn't using it, so if someone needed it, it was theirs.
WILL YOU HIRE HELP?: Nope. Jack will be in school full time (9-2 or 3pm, which is plenty of help) and I'm not working at the moment so no need!
MATERNITY CLOTHES?: Hell yes. I already have a bump and fit into NOTHING. I was able to do the hair tie trick with Jack but not this time. I don't get it. But Jon bought me some stuff that I love so we are hoping I won't need much more.
NERVOUS ABOUT LABOR AGAIN?: Not at all. Listen ladies. Labor hurts. It hurts like hell. Natural, epidural, c-section, at home, whatever the case is. You are going to be in pain when you push a watermelon out of your yoo-hoo or have a watermelon pulled out of your belly. So, since I know what happens during labor, I'm not nervous. And hell YES I am getting the epidural. Call me a wimp but there is no need to be miserable for 10+ hours. I'd rather chill and get some rest then scream, cry and want to kill my husband.
Here's how we found out about our lovely Jack. For Jack's birth story, click here. For my pre-pinterest pregnancy pictures/symptoms, click here.